Mу daughter іѕ going through a divorce rіɡht now. Shе hаѕ two small children a 3yrs οƖԁ аnԁ 6 months οƖԁ. I wουƖԁ Ɩіkе tο give hеr аƖƖ thе emotional support thаt ѕhе needs rіɡht now. Unfortunately I live аbουt 135 miles away frοm hеr.
Mу daughter іѕ going through a divorce rіɡht now. Shе hаѕ two small children a 3yrs οƖԁ аnԁ 6 months οƖԁ. I wουƖԁ Ɩіkе tο give hеr аƖƖ thе emotional support thаt ѕhе needs rіɡht now. Unfortunately I live аbουt 135 miles away frοm hеr.
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Be all ears. Have big shoulders. Say little unless asked.
It’s a tough situation to be in when going through a divorce. Unfortunately, there isn’t too much you can do for her. She will need to work through most of this on her own. What she needs most is to know you’re there for her whenever she needs you. It hurts us, as parents, to watch our children (no matter how old they are) go through such a heartbreaking time in their lives. But know that she will be okay once this subsides. Until then, I wish you both the best.
Ask her what you can do to help her. Does she log onto her email every nite? If so, that could be a way. Or, better yet, you both can use Instant Messaging which is free, (in case it’s long distance to call)
Also, almost everyone loves receiving things in the mail that aren’t bills, such as a simple card saying that you’re thinking about her.
You might think about visiting her & spending a little time with her. When the kids go to bed the two of you can have adult conversations. You can give her hugs. It must be very difficult for her. Possibly she could get a girlfriend to take the kids overnite & the two of you could go out to dinner together when you visit her.
Also, you might just come out and ask her what you could do to make her feel better. Is there anything that she needs that you can provide.
Good luck! Also, I wish your daughter well.
Would it be possible,for you to get a short term,rental close to your ,
daughter so that you can help with the,grandchildren & time out for your daughter..Both of which would be priceless to her right now..Maybe even,you will be able to cook the,occasional family meal
for you all & help with the tidying up afterwards..Discreetly you may be
able,to fold & put away some laundry..Making sure your not,seen as
interfering in your daughters life..JUST being there & listening,with an
open mind,is the absolute best thing you could do..
Hope this helps you a little??My very best wishes to you & your family.
Hope you all get through this,as painless as possible..
Please stay well & as happy as you all can be under the circumstances..Good luck..
My mom lives 10 hours away. When I went through my divorce she called me each day. Just having her think of me and be available to listen to me made a big difference.
You could invite her over on weekends or ask her if she would like to have you over on weekends so you take over with the kids and allow her to have some alone time.
Just make sure you are available for her. Call her and see how she is, send her a little gift of maybe some home made cookies, or something that will remind her of happy times at home. You could also consider making a little visit to see her and help out with the kids.
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listen to her when she calls you crying. don’t try to tell her what to do, even if she asks (that could backfire). just by letting her know you love her and lending an ear/ shoulder to cry on, will help a lot.
Call her make sure she is ok, listen to her no matter if you agree or disagree just listen, let her know you are there day or night, go see her and the babies, That’s what my mom did and it helped tremendously!
i’m going through a divorce right now and my mom has called me every day, she listens when i talk and it makes me feel better to know that she is there.
Why not take the train up and spend a 2 night weekend with her? With a big box of chocolates and some flowers. I bet she would love that.
give her accommodation and food and help her to leave her ex husband
send her a care package..give her certain songs to listen too..tell her you will be there for her..day or night.
Give her Jesus. He is the answer